Oh, it turns out to be Sasuke being not abusive and an SS fan posted her analysis (basing on psychology) the meaning of abuse.
Dang, for the sake of her fandom, she will use psychology to counter those abuse related issues. ih, i forgot i got a debate there also an SS fan, I decided not to repl because, i ask her to give me a concrete evidence why SS is still a healthy relatioship, Sasuke not being abusive, but yet she gave me the interview. stating Sakura still loves Sasuke

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I have been putting this way, if Sasuke will even though be save in the end, entirely he will be good, can he be inlove Sakura?
but after the events, Likely no..
I know who you're talking about (try not to mock her too much, though), and I just have to say that I find it incredibly ironic that she doesn't find SasuSaku to have abusive qualities at all when she's apparently "studied psychology for over three years". What makes SasuSaku a potentially abusive relationship is not about whether or not he physically beats her or insults her regularly. It's the simple fact he, Sasuke Uchiha,
does not care about Sakura Haruno romantically. This fact
alone not only makes the relationship one-sided - as has been argued against the pairing from the get-go - but it also greatly implies that Sasuke would neglect Sakura romantically, thus
hurting her. The fact he never paid her the kind of mind (
because he was never interested in the first place) was a form of neglect and inconsideration toward Sakura's feelings. Sasuke's indifference toward Sakura's advances is what makes the relationship abusive. Granted, it is her own fault for still trying to pursue him, but the point still stands. Loving Sasuke does nothing but
hurt Sakura.
Sasuke cares about Sakura as nothing more than a friend. Nothing he has said, nothing he has done has proven anything otherwise. He's not interested in women. He's too absorbed in
his wants and needs to so much as consider it. Why? Because his ambitions don't lie in birthing more Uchiha babies; they lie in restoring his clan's former glory and pride. Well, maybe not so much anymore, but you get the idea.
That's my two cents, anyway.