Ok. I'll provide a clear example for those who are still confused.
Let us suppose that your two close friends are in a feud for some serious reason. What will you do if you can't influence them physically? Will you simply stay on the sidelines and cheer for one of them disregarding the other? Are you sure? Or will you feel distraught over their inevitable fight and try to stop it because both of them (those two who mean so much to you) may get hurt? Let's choose the second option for now. Will you address the initiator or the other party? It is logical to try and sway the initiator, isn't it? Because the other friend won't change his or her mind if the fisrt one doesn't. Back to the initiator. How can you influence him/her if you have neither power, nor any logical reasoning that might work? You plea with him/her! You try to reach his/her heart deeply by using the notion that this fight is killing you as well... and if he/she cares about you, he/she will change the decision. So there is nothing... I repeat, nothing wrong about Sakura's act. Kakashi didn't even try, but Sakura had to try because her heart was being ripped just by the mere thought. She endured so much only to lose her precious people in the end.That is why romance is not the topic of Sakura's speech. By the way, she could have resorted to something more drastical and threaten to kill herself. But we're speaking about manga for teens, so Kishimoto can't actually use this kind of move.
Edited by Syn11, 30 September 2014 - 07:39 PM.