Miss Soupy already replied to the long funny quote, but I wanted to pitch in a few things.
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he's much too family-oriented to inflict any sort of pain on his wife
He spent most of his life trying to kill his brother. It seems like if his wife did anything that Sasuke didn't approve of, his reaction would likely be abusive.
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He knows better than anyone how much it hurts to be emotionally abused by people you love
And yet, he still wants to inflict that hurt on everyone else, to make others share his pain. At least Nagato had the delusion that it would bring peace. Sasuke just wants to make everyone else as miserable as him.
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A man knows when he's being abusive; they do it intentionally.
There are plenty of movies/tv on spousal abuse, that show the man being very loving and caring. Except for the times when he is being physically or emotionally abusive. (Usually with the justification that he wouldn't have snapped if he didn't care so much.

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And his reaction to her giving him the apples wasn't abusive. He was moody and he snapped. He didn't actually hit her.
Not that time. But he did hit her later. Knocking someone unconscious is always risky, despite how often it happens in stories. And in Part II, he would have tried to kill them all, until Orochimaru stopped him.
(In case someone tries to bring up Sakura hitting Naruto, remind them that it is done for humor, and that Naruto's thoughts show that he deliberately provokes her, at times, to be playful.)
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And yes, Sasuke has made Sakura cry many times... She was an emotional teenager. Of course she cried a lot.
This is conjecture, but the reason we think of Sakura crying a lot is *because* Sasuke made her cry many times. If Saskuke wasn't around, it would leave a huge vacuum in the Naruto story, but at least Sakura wouldn't be thought of as "weepy".
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... and he's only, as you put it, "violent" when he's involved in revenge, and he wouldn't be involved with it by the time he got married.
Except that, besides the flashback of when he was a kid, Sasuke has ALWAYS been involved in revenge. We have no idea if he has any other modes, except for violent-revenge. Itachi died, and Sasuke found another reason to keep hating.
It is not universal idea, but I think a marriage/relationship should involve two equals. Sasuke does accept others as equals, he has a tendency to try to destroy his rivals. His wife would be treated as inferior, or as a rival. Not saying Sasuke couldn't change, but then it would be a completely different person instead of the Sasuke we've met.
I guess that is why I ship for NaruSaku. If they develop a deeper romantic relationship, they would still be the same characters (or would only require modest growth that fits into the story). Relationships involving Hinata and Sasuke *could* happen, but would require drastic personality transplants to make anything long-term work.
Edited by RedDelicious, 24 January 2010 - 07:48 PM.