I already stopped being a pairing fan long before I shipped NS. The whole reason why I liked NS was because of the story. So that is already done. However, you act like pairings fans are not true fans and that is wrong. Sure, there are pairings fans who only cared for the pairings, but this isn't everyone. Some can be both pairings fans AND still follow the story and enjoy it regardless of their OTP.
I think this is the first mistakes people make alot. The only way to truly understand the story is to NOT be a pairing fan? That seems rather jaded to think. Besides, people are already saying that if you hate this ending it is because your an NS fan. NH and SS fans will always say I am a salty pairing regardless, but I am not trying to impress them. I am trying to fight for the better ending. Not this lame duck of a pairing fantasy.
It is the pairing wars that caused this mess in the first place.
I totally agree with you, but one thing, NS apart of pairing wars, is included as part of story, and there is major plot points (POAL, 3rd chapter and etc) and details (foreshadowing, parallels and etc) that was leading to it. I can be hipocrisy and say that pairing didn't matter, but NS was part of general story. So it's naturally for them to call people who didn't like this ending - NS fans, netural fans also saw that Naruto and Sakura would end up together, this is not a pairing matterm it's a story told this way for 698 chapters.