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he looked like a flaky girly boy
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i looked down my nose at minato.
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and most important he changed me
I think it cant be more obvious.
Minato changed the way she looked at him and most important he changed her views about herself.
Naruto changed sakura's view about him but did not changed her views about herself.
I disagree with you and yes it's something that Naruto must do.
Naruto ISN'T the only one who changed her. Naruto changed her outlook on him, but it wasn't just Naruto who influenced or help make her a better ninja. Sasuke when she talked about how annoying she was. Rock Lee, Sasuke and Naruto in the Forest of Death. Tsunade played a nice part in her fight with Sasori. Sure, a lot of it involves Naruto, but he's not the sole reason for her changes, and of course he can't change the views on her way of thinking. That's something she has to overcome on her own. JUST LIKE HINATA DID. Hinata gained the inspiration for her changes from Naruto but ultimately, it was her who pushed herself to make the change. You're making it seem as though Naruto has to do pretty much everything when it comes to her character. He already influenced her to get stronger, and now you want him to change her way of looking at herself? Seriously? I'd personally rather she tackle that hurdle on her own but that's just a difference of opinion.
This isn't even a right or wrong situation. Its you feel one way while I feel the other. Some will agree, and some won't.
What needs to be realized IMO, is that she can never do too little for Naruto because he appreciates her. It's just like what Yamato said. Realizations can't be made until she does something about it.
I never said anything about Minato saving Kushina as the reason why she fell in love with him. If you read what I posted again I said he proved it to her. That could mean anything.
Read what I said: "I think he has. It just hasn't sunk in yet. Kushina fell in love with Minato as soon as he proved it. Naruto has proved it the same exact way several times and Sakura is still stubborn for one reason or another. Whether she thinks she is burden or because Kishi is stalling. Whatever the case may be."
I never said anything about Minato "saving" Kushina as what you are implying. I just said he has to prove it. And Naruto has proved it, but Sakura is too stubborn thanks to Sasuke...or should I say Kishimoto? Should I mention the bench scene and how maybe this will come into the equation later down the story path? Many NS fans would like to think so. It does seems like an important moment not to pass up.
Be aware that when Minato did it, he only had to do it once.
Also, notice how the "idea vs reality" I stated before plays in this again?
See, you're just splitting hairs here. "Naruto didn't influences her. Naruto AND Sasuke influenced." Naruto still had a part in influencing her to become better. That's why she became a medic and stopped relying on her good looks and popularity. So she changed, just she has more changing to do. She stopped being self-centered and she started to be a more active role. Is that not changing a person? I think it is. I think that is a big change for her. She also, while arguably still has feelings, hasn't been fan-girling Sasuke anymore.
People change in many different ways and Sakura has change in the way she thinks, looks, and even her own nindo.
Is that what you want to believe? Do you know what a "pep-talk" is? I am just asking so we are on the same page here.
Let's look at the definition: http://www.thefreedi...ry.com/pep talk
pep talk - a speech of exhortation attempting to instill enthusiasm and determination in a team or staff
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And we got what Don-Kun posted
These are pep-talks. and a few others I believe, but too lazy to find.
If you mean a conversation about how he feels about her and her confession (He has technically did this, but it wasn't a "pep-talk"), as I said this is going to be something saved for last and you should be aware of this. He thought she was lying. So a "pep-talk" about this situation is not going to work as long as Sasuke is out there.
We also have this undeniable fact that he has tried to give her more pep-talks in the past, but Kakashi stopped Naruto from telling the whole truth. Then the war happened. I am going to say this again, if Kishi were to do this back then then NS would be canon right now, but we all know he won't do this till the end. He won't have Naruto and Sakura sit down and really talk it out because there is too much going on and they still have Sasuke to deal with. Plus the other pairings to deal with.
We also have moments where he could have pep-talked but as some said Naruto still believes Sakura loves Sasuke which is another reason why he has not. I would further the guess and say that Sai's pep-talk is what Naruto's pep-talk would have been. Although I wouldn't tehnically call them pep-talks as they weren't their to bring their spirits up, but more to tell the truth.
As I said, I think I know what Kishi is thinking. I don't agree with the execution, but I think I know what he is trying to do.
I personally wouldn't call the final conversation a pep-talk either because it's them telling the truth, not to bring their spirits up. It's not like they are down and then Naruto wants to brighten her spirits up. They just have to tell the truth.
BTW, I forgot to mention. Naruto DID influence her to change for the better. It wasn't until Sai told her about the POAL that she started to feel like a burden again. You have Naruto to bring her up and Sai brought her back down. Arguably, Sai became the realist.
I pretty much agree with you here.
Edited by StriderC, 04 January 2013 - 10:39 PM.