For the Naruto aspect it's specifically the lack of a library, so to speak, to see and understand whether what he felt that it was romantic or platonic. I have elaborated on this point further in former posts. You don't explicitly get what you are asking because 1: Kishimoto did not wish to tip his hand, and yes 2: It is not a romance. What I have done is convey to you, or try to anyway, the validity of essentially Naruto falling in the love he already had, that these feelings existed, using patterns of intensity in this bond of mutual admiration and manga sources, which I elaborated on earlier. I.E., the Narrative Intent to read is not "X wants relationship with Y", but "X and Y end up together", and this is the foundation for it.
How can someone debate abot 'platonic' or 'romantic' if there aren't feelings shown to debate about it. lol.
the more you write, the more it makes less sense