Excuse me James S Cassidy but I don't see anything wrong with wanting to give our fandom a good name. People do troll. And it's okay to joke, but it wasn't even a joke, so I don't see the point in arguing over it.
Excuse me Froot, but in all honesty there are a lot more important things to worry about. Naruto and Sakura getting together in a manga is probably the least of my worries. I do this for recreation such as yourself. Joking is the best way I can deal with stress whether funny or not by other peers.
Everyday I have to put up with real people telling me how stupid I am. I go to school and get yelled at by instructors, I go to work and get scolded by my boss. I went through 5 surgeries losing my left eye socket, a testicle,and repaired bones. When I was in the hospital, all I ever asked was for my Naruto manga. I lost a girlfriend to a car accident and sometimes contemplate life on a serious, darker tone. Naruto is the one heaven I have left that isn't ruined despite the FCs war between the pairings. NaruSaku fans are not exempted from the fact that some NaruSaku fans are indeed childish and can be just as bad as the childish NaruHina fans they have.
No side is above the other and each one has their faults and problems, but both sides can have their redeeming qualities.
In a way, Naruto is one of the last reasons I have left to live for because I like it so much. Not much a reason, but a reason none the less. I do it because it is fun and helps me forget my problems. Get away from reality. I come here because I would hope to have fun as well. That means joking around. Not bashing, but playing on puns or looking at the abridged videos that people make on the show.
Trolls, however, find recreation in bashing others which I did no such thing. You say you are not calling me a troll, but then you compare me to them which is the same. Otherwise if it weren't then there was no need to even mention trolling in the first place. Get what I am saying? With all due respect, you need to lighten up. If I was really a troll I would have been out there on Youtube or some other crazy forum saying things like "N4rut0 r0xx0rs. N4ruS4ku FTW!!!! N4nruh1n4 for f4g5!!!! lollololol," but I am not and don't even plan on doing so.
The joke itself was not even trolling and not even dissing anyone else. It merely plays off the fact what everyone else has been saying on this forum. NaruSaku is the likely candidate because of the development. NaruHina is not because of how little time they have on screen. It poked a nudge to the letters in each of the pairings and is a joke. It was meant to be a pun. You don't have to laugh to find something amusing.
I also feel like you are under-minding me and thus I could take this as you bashing me, but I won't. You see if you really can't tell the difference between me and a troll, then you don't know me very well. Maybe one day if I hang around for a bit you can understand me a little bit more to know how I behave as a person rather than an internet avatar on a forum.
Again, if you say "I am not comparing you to a troll or calling you troll" then you need to rethink or re-read your post because that is exactly what you are doing. Not saying you are a hypocrite, but maybe you didn't use the right words to get your point across and such ended up saying something you didn't mean. Which is why I am not holding it against you as mistakes can happen. I am also more mature than that and rather look at you as an equal.
No there is nothing wrong with giving your fandom a good name, but that should not apply when you are only talking IN THE CLUB ITSELF. If I was out there, on another discussion board where both sides reign, then it would be inappropriate. Understand what I am saying? If you took offense to that, then I don't know. It was not meant to be offensive. It was merely for a pun. If I did offend you then I am sorry, but I do not understand why you would be offended or think negatively on my post. Please explain that one too me.
I am also sorry for going off topic, but ever since I came to this forum whenever I tried to be myself and feel "right at home" as they say I get told I am bashing or am trolling. I have done no such thing in this forum yet. I merely state through logic on how something is using words in a certain jargon of vocabulary, but EVERYONE seems to take offense to it because I am being stuck up. I am human with human attributes. I understand you all want to be adults, but that does not mean you all can be uptight about it. I think, and this is just my opinion, that some of you posters here need to loosen up a bit. Have fun. I hold you all in high respect, but it feels like I am getting none of that in return with the way I have been treated lately. I keep things real...and I like to just chill and relax. I don't like to be uptight and joking is how I get around that.
Some members here seems to think that me just giving an opinion is me bashing. My whole jargon is nothing, but bashing in their eyes. Again I am still confused by this one. The only statement I have said that hasn;t been called out on as bashing is the "I also like NaruSaku" statement and others like it. Otherwise I get scolded for my posts.
I have been lectured on the "rules of this forum" so many times for nothing. I am not complaining either. In fact I like it here, but the last thing I want is to be told "Well if you don't like it here....leave. We do things our way or no way at all." Is that really what this forum is about? "Our way or no way?" I understand the rules and I know what to do and what not to do, but why is it a crime to have fun or to voice an opinion? If I do something really wrong, then you can lecture me, but if I do something like this and you lecture me....then what kind of forum is this? Again I understand, but we are supposed to be having fun right? Good, clean, fun.
Also, you said I would be giving NaruSaku fans a bad name. If you think about it, us just LIKING the couple of NaruSaku has given us a bad name in the NaruHina fans eyes. A paradox is it not? If you truly are worried by what the NaruHina fans say about our "reputation" then they are no better if they think on something that isn't. The mere practise of this makes them worse than we are. That's like a thief calling the cops on another thief who took his good he stole. (Funny thing, this actually had happened once. Some people are silly.) I don't need to impress the NaruHina fans and I am not going to try to. I'll as I am and do things to my personality. If I change that, then it won't be me. I know where to draw the line so lectures are not necessary.
If you, Froot, cannot understand my jokes that's fine, but it doesn't mean I am bashing or trolling or giving someone a bad name. You, with respect again, are taking it too seriously. Lighten up a little. This is the internet, not college. You don't need to be professional all the time. Like I said, if this is not something to argue over then this conversation should not have started in the first place. You're the one who took it one step further into a territory it didn't even need to go in. Just the facts, that's all I am saying.
Thank you.
Once again sorry for going off topic and I hope things change for the better in the future and this never happens again for everyone's sake.
Edited by James S Cassidy, 17 November 2009 - 02:01 AM.