Yes, I did mean over Sasuke. It's early and I was up late!
I don't necessarily agree with it; I think it was pretty clear that Naruto wouldn't be able to win a decisive victory and it would always involve some form of TnJ. I do think someone could make a cogent argument as to why they find it upsetting though.
Ofcourse, but it will be difficult to make an argument against Naruto's victory "because he didn't beat Sasuke up" without undermining his real achievement: changing people. Through empathy. The whole reason Kishimoto killed Jiraiya for.